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The 4-day workweek: Why I choose to work only 4 days a week and you can too
What I discovered through this process was not something new - I had known this all along but now I became more fully and clearly aware of it. And now I am working only 4 days a week. Let me show you how you can too.
The process of finding out what’s truly important to you
If I were to ask you, “What’s truly important to you?” what would you reply? This question has once again become important to me because recently I found myself feeling uncomfortable sensations in my stomach - a gut feeling that something’s not right and that something needs to change. Not knowing what that “something” is, I have begun an introspective process for myself so that I can follow this inner-calling, figure out what the cryptic messages mean and then go about taking actions towards it. But before I can take action, I need to unearth from deep within me, what that message is and what that new path is meant to be.
What decluttering your home shows you about the process of meditation
”There’s happiness in having less”. That’s the first sentence in the book, Goodbye Things written by the Japanese author, Fumio Sasaki. This morning, I took up reading this book for the second time as I am freshly in a new wave of decluttering my home. As I read the first few pages, it dawned on me that the process of decluttering - at least decluttering in the minimalist way - is similar to the process of meditation.
Create Your Happy New Year!
Here’s something more important than resolutions, action plans and goals - create your happy new year using my suggestions to make your dreams come true.
Building Your Sense Of Self-Worth Using SMST
As working professionals, parents and online entrepreneurs with a vision, we all have a never-ending list of to-dos and projects. Running a business or a project, naturally means coordinating and managing multiple moving parts. At the same time, bringing a project to its completion is essential for feeling a sense of progress and a sense of accomplishment about our work which feeds into our sense of self-worth.
Being Kind To Yourself
Learning to be kind to ourselves is a practice. Here is one way to be more kind to ourselves.
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Embrace introspection as way to deepen your inner-peace and happiness
I am all about training our mind to become an ally in our life because a trained, calm mind is a powerful thing. This may be the single most important skill that I have been introduced to in my life. And this skill is best refined through a meditation practice. But there's also something else for us.
Do You Know Your Personal Velocity?
Do you know what your personal velocity is?
Your personal velocity — your pace of how you do things, how you live your life that feels just right for you?
How To Turn An Obstacle Into A Meaningful Opportunity
When you are faced with an obstacle or a challenge in life, you can find an opportunity in it and come out of the challenge even stronger. In this video, I share with three steps you can take to make this happen.
A secret that will help you shift from resisting to accepting
With Cristof Ensslin
My husband, Cristof Ensslin is a power house of wisdom and inspiration and a big part of my journey from a downward cycle to a rich, happy, uplifting life. I am amazed how he handles things in his life with grace and compassion. So I asked him how he deals with some of the challenging moments, especially that of loss. Listen to this video in which he shares the power of allowing the emotion: truly a big key to moving through the challenge.
How to Keep Your Cool in the Face of Challenges
With Asmita Barua and Voahirana Rakotonaivo
I write and speak in my blogs and videos about ways we can live a happier life. Then there are moments when things get really tough and it becomes a challenge to stay on our positive track. Recently, I had the chance to speak with two of my awesome friends who are also my former colleagues from the time I worked at the United Nations. And I asked them how do they keep cool during challenging times. This is what they had to say:
Listening to Your Inner Voice with Stillness
Last month, Renée Konan, an entrepreneur and also a former colleague during my time at the United Nations in New York, shared with some wisdom nuggets. I called her up on skype and recorded our conversation which is filled with laughs and giggles. She speaks with so much ease and confidence about listening to our inner wisdom and makes it simple to do.
How I Dealt With Someone's Words That Were Hurtful
You consider yourself a positive person, generally upbeat about life. You focus on your work, are kind to people and work towards making a contribution to this world. But then, someone says something that just throws you off your positive-horse, so to speak.
Does this happen to you? I just experienced this.
How To Be Content, Right Now?
You know, I have been looking and searching for the last six years for specific answers to questions that so many of us face. And I am fortunate that teachers have come into my life at exactly the right time, teaching me just what I needed to know in that moment.
When I do learn something I want to begin implementing it right away and sharing it right away.
And I made a video for you that I think will be very useful if you are thinking about questions around contentment.
How to Create Happiness Every Day
Even though happiness seems like a mystery at times to some of us, we can create happiness every day. Read on!
Happiness is a personal responsibility just as a clean home or a healthy meal is. To keep our kitchen sink clean what needs to happen? We need to take the scrubber and wash the dishes and clean the sink afterwards. Then, to continue to have it this way, we need to do it everyday. Now we have a nice, tidy kitchen sink on a daily basis.